Yes thats true. I actually didn’t work out at all when I started dating her. But about 3 years ago she started seriously trying to lose weight and ended up losing about 40lbs over 6 months.

I was really happy for her, but her attitude started to get shitty the more weight she lost and she started acting up more than usual. I tried to ask her what was wrong because normally she was very good at communication but at that point she wasn’t communicating well and wouldn’t give me a straight answer.

So I took a weekend to myself to think about what was going on and how I could regain control of the relationship before it was too late. I spent probably 16 hours alone just thinking and going over every possible thing.

I came to the conclusion that it must have been because she felt like since she was working out and improving herself that I was being selfish and/or lazy by not doing the same. And because of that, she figured I must not care about her or the relationship if I wasn’t willing to put in that kind of effort into myself.

So I immediately got a gym member and started lifting weights. I was only like 125lbs at the time and when she found out she kinda just brushed it off assuming I would quit within a week or two. But I started going 6 days a week and working my ass off.

The respect came back within a few months and by the time I was around 140 she was back to normal. Even better, her workout regiment pretty much fell apart and she gained all the weight back. Currently im sitting at about 165lbs and my wife is heavier than ever.

However I plan to keep her that way because I still think shes hot even at that weight and meanwhile I’m still gaining muscle to sort of “put her in her place” about how much im willing to work for this relationship.


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