Why do you feel the need to seek people out and yell at them like this? It is nearly impossible to live in America without assistance. Minimum wage can’t pay for a one bedroom apartment anywhere in this entire country. Health insurance can be more than a quarter of our income. Nowhere are you being asked to pay him. Nowhere are you being pressured into anything. You sought him (and other fat people, I saw your profile) out specifically to shame him. Why? What do you gain from this? Who raised you to act this way to someone who did nothing to you? I hope for all your bluster you lie awake at night and wonder who failed you so badly that you feel the need to abuse strangers behind the protection of the internet. I hope the tiny seed of shame plants in your head and grows until you can’t take it. Shut up and grow up.