hey brothers,
after reading several posts there is one thing that i don’t understand.
some of you write that you try no to look at girls in sexual way, and i dont know why ?? .
now when i’m on my streak I can see more beauty of girls, they make me more horny and i think that is ok and natural . Before i didn’t have so much interest in girls, cause i was watching to much porn. My sexual attitude was directed towards my computer, not to a real person.
That’s why i don’t have a girlfriend, cause my natural instincts did not work.
Now I pay more attention to girls, i want to talk with them, joke, tease etc. I’m not fantasizing that i have sex with them or some porn shit like that but now I see how beautiful they are, their legs, hair, breasts and i think that is one of the most valuable benefits of nofap.
I think we should ask ourselves why we do nofap ? My goal is to gain confidence, more energy and to have a real relation with girls not with fake porn actress.