So I(26m) and my wife (23f) have been together 4 years and are extremely comfortable with each other, nothing ever really grosses us out with each other. She also gave me permission to post this.

A few weeks ago, my wife shit herself. She was laughing, ate something she shouldn’t have, and it just happened. She was a little embarrassed, but later we laughed about it together and have made multiple jokes about it.

Recently we were at dinner with mutual friends of ours and she started laughing. I told her to be careful or it’ll happen again and she stopped and got really quiet and embarrassed. She was pretty reserved the rest of the night and when our friends left she shut herself in our bedroom, saying I had really embarrassed her and it was mean to make jokes about it without asking if she was ok with joking about it with friends beforehand.

She told me I needed to apologize to her for embarrassing her, but I told her we make jokes about it all the time and I don’t see a difference.

AITA?

Edit: I realize I’m a dick. I ordered my wife her favorite for dinner, and will apologize when she gets home.

Final edit: [comment from the First Lady herself](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/sy6igp/aita_for_teasing_my_wife_about_pooping_her_pants/hxx8kab/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3)