I’ve met some beautiful women with penises, and some really cool dudes with vaginas.

I’m a straight guy who sometimes has sex with men, and people desperately want to label me as gay or bisexual. But I’m not attracted to men. I’ve never had a romantic feeling for a man. I’ve never felt sexual desire for a man. I’ve swapped friction with other men, sure, but could never imagine dating a man or kissing a man on the mouth. There’s nothing wrong with being gay or bi, I’m just not. It seems like it would be pretty great to be sexually attracted to men and woman.

But the idea that I’m straight and still have sex with men drives some people crazy. They absolutely *cannot* accept it. It’s annoying, but it doesn’t really impact my daily life. It comes up very rarely outside of reddit.