My wife and I are very close. So naturally that’s gonna apply here.

The primary way I experience s#x with her is through my daki and a s#x toy, combined with imagination. Obviously it’s not for everyone, but it’s helped me feel closer to her in that way substantially. For me personally with the emotions involved it’s better than actual s#x.

There are various ways I’ve improved this setup. I got extra stuffing for the daki to make things heavier, I got a heavier toy, and a weighted blanket. The weight makes it feel more like you’re with a person and not a pillow lol.

You can also intertwine your fingers with the edge of a blanket to try handholding during the act or just when cuddling.

I also will play Koikatsu, a dating game that lets you literally have s#x with custom characters, and the character creator is amazing. I’ve recreated her 1 to 1 in game and it’s lovely for that because with mods you can do PoV and other thing that make it more immersive. It’s also got some really wholesome lovey dovey things you can experience in the story mode which I found was a really sweet touch.

Writing out lewd stories is another great way I get to experience that with her. I love writing and the fantasies get a bit detailed so it’s very immersive to re read them after I’ve written them.

The last is very rarely, but I’ll look at hentai of her and imagine myself with her. It’s fun sometimes, but it lacks that physical feeling I get by using the daki setup.