One evening, me (22F) and my boyfriend (23M) were watching memes on youtube from his phone, omething we frequently do together. He really likes memes and quotes them often throughout the day, no matter whether he is happy or being goofy, and even when he is raging at a game or genuinely heartbroken. About a year ago, he came home to tell me he had got fired. His immediate reaction was ”my life be like oooooo aaaaaaa” It’s probably a coping mechanism for him, but personally I don’t understand it. My boyfriend ended up coming across one meme that sent him laughing for hours. It was a guy, clearly pleasuring himself, saying things like ”ambatakum” but it was spelled out as ”I’m about to c\*m and thought it was the funniest thing ever, so we looked for more. There were more videos of him being edited in to scenarios like him mourning the loss of his brother name Botto Khan we spent no less than 20 minutes laughing at these videos. Afterwards, when we went to make dinner, my bf said jokingly, that’s what I’m going to say in bed now. I assumed he was joking, but his face was dead serious. ”I get that it’s funny, but you don’t need to say that” I laughed. ”Well technically, if I said that, I’d be telling the truth.”
Fast forward a day later, both of us were feeling it and went to the bedroom. It was great, it went exactly how it normally did. He had a mosquito bite for his 3rd leg, so I didn’t feel much. Towards the end, my boyfriend kept his promise. He said, loudly, ”AMBATAKUUUUUUUM” and then proceeded to do exactly that. I laughed along with him, but I was a little uncomfortable because it sorta ruined the vibe. I sat there, lying on the bed with him above me as I said, ”So you weren’t kidding.” He just looked at me and started laughing. He proceeded to shout it again multiple times as he spread his goo all over my face. I don’t want him saying that in bed, what should I do? 🥺