I’m 5ft tall and his penis is 7in (he’s also the tallest I’ve dated at 6ft). I didn’t know when we started crushing on each other, we were just coworkers and I thought he was cute.

Every time we have sex hurts. Not in a “oh it feels good, but kinda hurts” way, it JUST hurts. ONLY hurts.

I stopped initiating sex because of this but I picked up some new lube and offered to give it another shot tonight.

In the middle of sex I let him know that I needed more lube because it started to hurt and he just… stopped. I kept insisting it was okay because even if it hurts I love the intimacy, but he refused and said at that point we were using so much lube there was no friction and it didn’t feel good anymore. I kept saying I’d only use a little more but he just said he didn’t want to hurt me and started watching YouTube.

I’m just sitting here stewing in my disappointment. In a round about way he basically just said we’re not having sex again because no matter what we do, it’s going to hurt.