So I (f26) have a boyfriend (m24) and recently he got into a dispute with the neighbour’s kids. They accidentally kicked their football into our yard and they came into the garden to get it back. Tbh, I didnt care but my boyfriend started screaming at these like 11 year ds about how they are poorly raised and their parents should be ashamed. I. Was. Fucking. Mortified. I sent the kids some chocolates and sweets and apologised profusely for his behaviour.

I was seeing red flags and told him this behaviour was NOT normal. He kind of brushed me off and I told him if he pulled anything like that again he was gone.

The next week the ball came into our garden and I was about to throw it back to the kids when my boyfriend stormed outside and took the ball inside. I told the kids that I would bring it back in a minute. He went into the bathroom and emerged like 10 minutes later wearing gloves and a football covered in shit. HIS OWN SHIT. WHAT THE FUCK.

I asked him if he was out of his fucking mind but he stormed past me and threw it over the fence screaming “TAKE THAT YOU BITCHES”. I screamed and girl I mean screamed at him about how he was a fucking douche and I wanted him out of my house and he is a disgusting fucking monster and that they were just kids. I screamed and screamed and eventually he left.

I deleted all his games off of his ps4 and gave it to the kids as an apology. I was so embarrassed.

My ex-bf’s mom messaged me asking what happened and I responded with

“What happened? WHAT HAPPENED? You are a pathetic excuse of a woman who raised a fucking sociopath who covered a football in his own shit and threw it at some kids and he needs to be a in a facility because something is wrong with him and god knows how I hadn’t seen any red flags about the fucking monster you raised during the 7 months we dated”.

I know I am in the right for what I did to my bf but am I in the wrong for snapping at the mother for something she had no direct involvement in?