frankly you don’t even need a gf… to get sex or any action like this kind. you just have to create a kind of an energy with the other person to the level you both feel comfortable and on the same wavelength… that’s how you close… wether it takes 1 night or 10 years it’s possible… example: met a girl half day at work was assigned to work with her we joked around hanged around had lunch laughed etc… (mind you i’m new to this casual stuff) never saw her again. a month later i see her and say hey strangerrr… (let’s leave jokingly) and just laughed.. i was coming in she was leaving… and that was it… another month later… seen her again. i was clocking out and she clocked in so i jokes again let’s leave… she said yeah okay…. as we walked to my car she said she enjoyed our time together the first time and was hoping to get my number but was too shy. we get to my car we start making out and she gave me head in the underground parking lot… all it took was that one time to bond to seal the deal… blew my mind.. thinking i has to go through endless dates to receive any action… so good luck wether girlfriend goals or one nights… getting head or sex is possible just by bonding and feeding of each other’s energy and wavelength.