I (F33) have been engaged to my fiance (M37) for 5 months. We don’t have orgys because thats the way he wants it. I got a raise on my horniness. now I am 30% more horny than he is and I noticed that he’s been using this to ask me to engage in weird sex acts. Whenever I say “no” or “why should I do this?” he’d respond with “the 30% that’s why”. he acts as if the 30% is unfair or that I’m not dserveing of it.

Several times he has tricked me to sucking his and his friend’s coks by asking me publicly. Let me say that I’m too nice to say “no”, I hate confrontation especially when we’re at a public place like a restaurant so I just grin and suck.

Last tuesday, he asked me to join him and his buddies for pigeon orgy. I told him from the start I wasn’t gonna stick the pigeon in my pussy and he shouldn’t expect me to. He said he “got this” and “no worries”.

We got to the restaurant. Met his friends, got naked. And in the middle of the orgy he leaned in and whispered that I would be sticking a pigeon in my pussy. I got so mad I whispered back “noooo” but he probably relied on me not causing a scene in public and infront of his friends. he said “you have a high sex drive you could do anything, 30% remember?”.

I was fuming inside. instead of reacting negatively and losing my temper. I waited til the pigeons arrived (there was a pigeon for each of us) I petted mine then I excused myself to the restroom. I then sneaked out from there, got into my car and went home.

I started getting phonecalls from my fiance then texts asking where I was. I texted back saying I didn’t appreciate how he put me in this situation and basically tricking me into sticking a pigeon in my pussy for. I told him I went home then stopped replying. An hour later he came and started yelling at me calling me selfish, irrational, cheapskate and childish for sneaking out like that and leaving him stuck with a pigeon he could not fuck (He had to call his brother for help). We had a loud argument then he walked out.

His friends didn’t speak to me on this but he told me they’re disappointed in my behavior and are telling him to take time and “reflect” on the type of woman he’s gonna be married to.

AITA for what I did? Is what he’s expecting from me fair or justified?.

ETA: Some info:

(1) he said that because the pigeon wasn’t big then I could have just sticked it.

(2) He admitted not telling me about it til later knowing I’d refuse. He still thinks my reaction was childish and unacceptable.