Excuse me, there are Romeo and Juliet laws that exist in most states that allow for sexual relationships between a minor and someone three years her senior. That means as a 20 year old, I can choose to have sexual intercourse with a 17 year old girl and it would be 100% legal. Of course, most people haven’t heard of these laws, so I would be seen by many as a pedophile. The term pedophile implies that the age difference is significant AND the person I am having sex with is a child. Since 17 year olds clearly are not children, according to the aforementioned Romeo and Juliet laws, I can fuck this 17 year old girl whenever I want.