Oh boy. Look at all the stupid here today. So much verbal diarhea.

>Essentially Japan’s libido wound up pulled in two directions: towards an extreme libertinism where anything goes, and towards an early 20th century Puritanism where sex and sexuality are shameful. This explains why there are so many “ooh, don’t look at me” tropes even in non-pornographic content. Sex is something that is done TO a woman, not WITH her, in a large part of the public consciousness, which explains how, uh… rapey a lot of Japanese erotica can be. (See also, the whole tentacle thing, which has been a cultural trope there for centuries but became a cliche by the eighties and nineties.)

**Fun fact. doujins are one of the most popular forms of adult media and there is a large amount of content with males being nothing but a replaceable toy. Still doesnt mean its the dominant content either. A large variety exists. Here are two of my favourites 173436, 168479 look at all that rape towards woman……………………….**

“Japans libido was pulled in two directions” The fuck do I do with a sentence like that? Japan is a country, and there culture didnt go through anything that anyone else didnt. Fuck me you are dumb.

Japanese media encompasses all kinds of content. You want media where the women are in control? Is that your complaint? Bible Black is a great Hentai for that. Want one with a blooming romance **Koi Maguwai**? Want one about a average encounters? Kanonjo x kanonjo x kanonjo. Lots of dominant woman, lots of loving relationships. You have 0 fucking knowledge on the medium. Its creators. Its fans. Its variety. Eroge!! Sex and Game make is a great hentai.

**You have 0 education on what you speak of**

Sex was also prominently featured on western media up untill the 2000s even porn could be on late night tv. Programs like the tv series Oz existed. The emmanuel porn series… Our horror movies like I spit on your grave 3 have been made up until 2016. Soo…. All your arguments are out the window on “sex media and culture” for both countries.

Western censorship has also led to large amounts of criticism and a large shift over to other mediums (anime/manga/hentai) its increased popularoty is do to outside cultures wanting to indulge in japanese media.

The “ooh dont look at me trope” is just a fun tale on catching someone in a vulnerable state. It happens. Ever lived with someone, roomates? High chance at one point you will see eachother in a vulnerable state. Anime making light of those moments doesnt mean their 20th century cultre pulled them in any direction. **what the fuck even is your comment. Who the fuck do you think you are? where are any of your credible sources backing up these logistical fallacies of yours?**

If you want to add the “now i cant get married” line its literally a joke for comedy series mocking the over sensitive idea of percieved marriage requirments and personal value for it.

**TENTACLES EXIST BECAUSE WESTERN CENSORSHIP**

So you are, once again, wrong on why they exist in their current form. You want to play the “centuries game” lets look at greek mythology and its sexual contents. All cultures have odd fetishes, stories, kinks etc. Wait till you got a good load of old russian media.

**SEX BEING DONE TO A WOMEN NOT WITH HER IS 100% your interpretation of the limited experience in adult japanese media**

Nothing you have said is accurate.

**JAPAN HAS HAD THE MOST PROGRESSOVE MEDIA, THE MOST MEDIA GENRES AND THE MOST OPEN FORM OF CREATIVITY. You fucking deluded infants are using stereotypes and anecdotes to place judgement on.. everything in the most clueless way possible and in the most negative way.. Its abhorrrent. Ignorance IS bliss I guess.

>Ugh.. sounds horrible.. I’m a pleaser, I can’t even imagine sex as being done TO a woman… If she’s not enjoying herself I sure as hell can’t enjoy myself either..

What does being a “pleaser” have to do with anything? Many people like different things, have different standards etc. I understand you are a member of r/ihavesex but FFs speak with a tiny bit of common sense.

There are no shortage of woman that enjoy a submissive role just as there is no shortage of men who enjoy a submissive role.

**All that matters is comunication, consenting (adults) and respecting boundaries.**

There are literally professions for being a dominatrix.

anything else or being a “pleaser” is… Delusional bullshit. You have your own standards and expectations for sex and your partners involvement. Thats it. It doesnt make right or wrong more than anything or anyone else.

**get off the self made moral high horse**

I for one like forceful play and have long before I was into hentai or japanese media. I am no where near that culture. I love being someones submissive more frequently than I like anything else.

**Can I not have a male partner now because I like submissive roles**

Rape-play is also a very popular fetish all around the world. Rape-play is incredibly common for so many people. Its not a vile thing to roleplay Its a vile thing to enact in its criminal form.. Sexual roleplay of all kinds can exist and consenting adults are aloud to experiment with eachother.

“Im a pleaser” You are an idiot.

>I’m not an expert; my side degree in gender studies was in 2012 and a lot has shifted in the field since then.

Literally has nothing to do with “gender studies” so you wouldnt gain any insight there in anything anyway.

Why are the dumbest mother fuckers online always the most ignorantly judgmental and comunicative? Do ya’ll like sharing misinformation?

There is a ton of adult media produced in japan. Many of it consensual. The problem is morons like you dont take your time to actually look through hentai. The stuff that is mainly shared is the agressive or shocking content because its popular EVERYWHERE AND THUS MORE LIKELY FOR SOMEONE TO SHARE.

**Go to japanese sites to buy your content and your variety changes dramatically**

So many voice works are sweet and sensual.

Doujins that feature men being the product of a womans dominant actions…

Please. All of you. Stop fucking talking. So many wrong things said. So many things to correct. So many false perceptions. So much bloody fucking ignorance. Its painful to read so much blatantly incorrect stances.