me (M18) and my gf (F17) thought one of us were infertile so long story short i came inside. i’ve never been worried about abortion because i want a kid more then she ever would so if i want to abort it she’d most definetly want to aswell, i also have a huge family who supports me as well as free healthcare (Western Australia). we had some relationship problems and just as we made up we finally went to the doctors to see how many weeks and how we can abort it. upon arrival they basically told us she’s 4 weeks pregnant and that he couldn’t do anything and for us to get a blood test and then wait until week 6 for an ultrasound before giving her an abortion pill. She panicked as she hates blood tests and can’t do them. and threw the papers and her phone and broke up with me, i stayed with her through everything and ran to get her papers almost getting hit by a car in the process. i stayed by her while she had a mental breakdown letting her blame me for everything and say she never wants to see me again. as an emotional guy i stayed by her and cried while telling her no matter what she says or does im gonna be with her and support her. eventually after abo 2 hours i managed to sit her down and convince her to talk to me about it. she came to the conclusion after a while that she loves me and wasn’t gonna leave me. now the reality of this is coming down on me as they are not only charging us for consultation (we don’t have any money) but also charging us for the abortion and she refuses to get a blood test, what can we do? im never gonna leave her side even if worse come to worse because i love her and she’s my soulmate, i have a sister who can drive and make time to help and im just lost. do we need a blood test, why and what for? is there an alternative to a blood test? i’m currently trying to sell my vyvanse for money in order to afford this and im risking a lot of my future for this whole situation. it’s not right and australia’s healthcare is a fucking scam i’ve never seen free healthcare or even used it and it seems like since everything is free doctors don’t seem to be bothered with helping as they get paid regardless and will always try and sneak in an extra charge for some cash. WHAT DO I DO??? please help im a fucking idiotic mentally unstable child in a man’s body and i’m scared. but i have to play the role as the one who’s gonna make everything right.