As an average-dicked dude who likes to set himself apart, anyone else out there breaking out a strap-on to fuck women into oblivion on the 2nd or 3rd date and blow some minds? Feels like I’ve discovered some secret I’ve discovered that gives me a leg up on the competition so to speak.

I have had a strap-on I got to try pegging for quite a long time, and separately I’ve had a dildo because I like to watch girls as I use it on them or watch them suck it for me, but it wasn’t until more recently that I decided to try just fucking someone with the strap-on. And they really actually enjoyed it quite a lot, and I enjoyed how it felt like it took away any performance anxiety or expectations on my part because they already had had like multiple penetration orgasms before I went to fuck them and at that point they were so blissed out that anything I did was just another bomb going off.

To my surprise, this move has been pretty well-received by pretty much everyone I suggested it to since. While some of the fantasies I’ve tried to introduce often surprise me with how little interest they generate, this one seems to go over surprisingly well and the actual results are undeniably powerful.

I think it’s fairly common for heterosexual couples to use vibrators and dildos, but for whatever reason people haven’t realized that using a dildo by humping and thrusting with it attached to you via strap-on is way way way easier for the dude, feels 1000x better for the girl (because you get to feel the guy still using his hands on your breasts or throat or ass or hips or whatever), it’s easier to makeout and kiss while using the strap-on, you can use one hand to rub her clit or do whatever she likes without having to worry about that split-concentration affecting your ability to enjoy it or your erection from being affected, and obviously you don’t have to worry about size or stamina.

With dual-density silicone dildos, it feels squishy on the outside with a hard inner core which makes it remarkably realistic according to partners I’ve asked when your hands are all them and they can’t see it..

Whether you:

\-want to give your partner a new level of pleasure they haven’t experienced

\-be able to fuck them and watch their facial expressions and listen to their moans and pants and breaths without being distracted by your own pleasure before you stick your dick in and can’t look too closely or it’s cum-time and mission complete

\-want to address insecurities about whether you are going for long enough or fast enough or are too big or too small

\-want to set yourself apart and break the mold of heterosexual sex

\-think it would be fun to give her earthshattering orgasms and guarantee you’re the best sex she’s ever had

\-girl needs super slow movement or no movement and wants to just do figure eights and grind on you but you’ll go soft without more friction? strap-on solves that

\-girl needs super fast pace for a period of time that would make you cum three times over? strap-on solves that

Consider trying it. 7/10 times she will 100% come back for more, guaranteed, sometimes.

**but what do I get out of it as a dude?**: ok but for real I know many people are probably feeling the ‘but what if she prefers it to me’ thing, to that I say – she won’t prefer the strap-on sex to you because the strap-on sex IS YOU. the whole reason it’s so enjoyable is it’s a sensation she would never get from using a dildo on her own (and trust me, it’s not like women aren’t aware of hairbrushes or cucumbers or sex stores – if just a big phallic object was all she needed then why would she bother dating you when she could go to a hardware store?). you can think about if a girl grinded her pussy on your face while using a super vacuum fleshlight on your dick, would that make you not enjoy fucking her anymore? if you try a strap-on and dildos you won’t be competing against dudes with bigger dicks, you’ll just now be competing with the other Michael Jordans of sex out there who are also aware of high level shit like this.

also expecting some ‘but I enjoy PIV because it feels good on my dick ya dingus so this sounds dumb’ , but hear me out. do you finger your girl? or give her head? well those are things you do to pay it forward and give your girl some solo attention, this is in the same category. the difference is it’s way fucking easier than those things and it’ll make her cum 100x harder and she can still feel you kissing her neCk or making out with her or your weight on her or whatever else. this can be a 5 minute thing before you get whatever dream sex act you want from her back.

if you really need pleasure, put on a vibrating cock ring or toy that vibrates your cock at a very low setting, or put in a butt plug if you’re OK with anal and the thrusting will still stimulate you.

finally, if you do top tier shit like this it will just motivate her to step her game up to because she’ll be like damn this guy is willing to do some outside the box shit. you want her to dress up like a catgirl or give your blowjobs while you play Super Smash? well if you want catgirl sex you better be wiling to do some real avant garde shit yourself.