My boyfriend is into butt stuff, but everytime I peg or finger him I get shit on me, and I think its pretty gross. Is this normal? I want to please him, but i can’t do feces.
Edit : thank you guys for all the advice, Next time he asks for it ill suggest cleaning first. He also has a hairy asshole, and the hair can really get in the way for me to see what I’m doing. any suggestions for that? I’m very body positive I just think this whole experience would be better for me if there wasn’t so much hair, but I dont want to make him feel insecure