I 18 year old female was engaged to my fiance Ed me and him were pretty average couple I loved how he respected my wishes to lose my virginity on our wedding night . That’s until I caught them bare naked in the shower having sex I was shocked and walked out and had a full blown panic attack and ran out the house I got in my car and just drove I don’t know where but I just drove I was bombarded with phonecards from my sister and of course Ed I was in so much pain and crying I couldn’t see the road ahead . My sister had already started having sex and she was the one person that said she understood me protecting my virginity. I happened to park at the side of the road and beg one of my relatives to get my stuff from his house I had enough of his and my sisters unreasonable phone calls and texts . I took my therapist advice and went on a trip to brazil during that trip I met Jamie a nice mixed Portuguese man 6ft he owned couple of hotels there and we kind of hit it off . I told him what happened to me and cried into his arms it got pretty intense and we had sex It was painful but sweet at the same time . We have been together a total of 8 months and Ed still won’t stop finding and calling my number always texting me things like ” you were so pure to me im sorry i hurt you”. Jamie would not like this so one day without even knowing he took a video of us having sex my stomach was on the bed and my back was facing him turns out he sent the video to Ed . I heard from a friend of mine upon seeing the video he threw up and cried . What should I do in this situation?