Let ๐ me preface this column ๐ by saying this: my ๐ฅณ wife (I ๐ have to get โผ๏ธโ used ๐ถ to saying that) ๐ and I ๐ not โ only waited sexually in ๐๐ฑ every way โ๏ธ (no, we didnโt ๐ก pull the Bill ๐ฐ๐ธ Clinton ๐ธ and technically avoid โsexโ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ sex,) but ๐ we didnโt โ shack up โฌ๏ธ as live-ins and most ๐ฆ importantly, we ๐ง๐ฆ courted each ๐๐ other in a way that ๐ค๐๐ณ๐ was consistent with our publicly professed values. ๐ฐ๐ช We ๐ถ did it right. ๐ค Feeling judged? I ๐๐๐ couldnโt ๐น๐คทโโ๏ธ care less. You ๐ถ๐ know why? ๐คจ Because ๐ฝ๐ค my wife and I were judged all ๐พ throughout ๐๐ฆ our โ๏ธโ๏ธ relationship. People laughed, scoffed and poked fun at the young, celibate, naive Christian โช couple. Weโd certainly ๐ never โโโโโ make ๐ it to the wedding without schtupping, and if we did, our โwedding night would ๐ค be awkward and terrible,โ they ๐ said. ๐ฌ Turns out that ๐ค๐๐ณ๐ people ๐ถ couldnโt ๐น๐คทโโ๏ธ have ๐๐ผ been ๐๐ more ๐๐ค wrong. Looking ๐๐ฐ back, I ๐ป think that the women ๐ saying ๐คข those ๐ฐ things felt ๐ฉ๐ฆ like the floozies they ultimately were, and the men, with their fickle manhood tied to their ๐ pathetic sexual conquests, felt ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ threatened. I think ๐ค itโs important to write ๐ this column ๐ not to gloat (though โผ๏ธ๐คจ Iโll ๐ก be ๐ glad to), but to speak ๐ up ๐ฃ๏ธ๐ซ for all ๐ฏ of the young ๐ผ couples that have also done โ things the right ๐๐ way. ๐คโ When ๐๐ people ๐จ do marriage right, they donโt complain so much, and so their ๐ฅ voices are silenced by the rabble of promiscuous charlatans, ๐๐ peddling their ๐ฎ pathetic ๐จ๐จ world ๐ view ๐คค as โprogressive.โ