Let ๐Ÿ™† me preface this column ๐Ÿ† by saying this: my ๐Ÿฅณ wife (I ๐Ÿ˜ have to get โ€ผ๏ธโŒ used ๐ŸŽถ to saying that) ๐Ÿ˜ and I ๐Ÿ˜€ not โŒ only waited sexually in ๐Ÿ‘ˆ๐Ÿ”ฑ every way โ†•๏ธ (no, we didnโ€™t ๐Ÿ˜ก pull the Bill ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ธ Clinton ๐Ÿ‘ธ and technically avoid โ€œsexโ€ ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘Œ sex,) but ๐Ÿ‘ we didnโ€™t โŒ shack up โฌ†๏ธ as live-ins and most ๐Ÿฆ importantly, we ๐Ÿ‘ง๐Ÿ‘ฆ courted each ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹ other in a way that ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ was consistent with our publicly professed values. ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ‘ช We ๐Ÿถ did it right. ๐Ÿคœ Feeling judged? I ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ couldnโ€™t ๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ care less. You ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿ‘† know why? ๐Ÿคจ Because ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿค” my wife and I were judged all ๐Ÿ‘พ throughout ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ’ฆ our โœ‚๏ธโœ‚๏ธ relationship. People laughed, scoffed and poked fun at the young, celibate, naive Christian โ›ช couple. Weโ€™d certainly ๐Ÿ˜’ never โŒโ•โ•โ•โ• make ๐Ÿ™‹ it to the wedding without schtupping, and if we did, our โ€œwedding night would ๐Ÿค• be awkward and terrible,โ€ they ๐Ÿ’ said. ๐Ÿ’ฌ Turns out that ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ people ๐Ÿ‘ถ couldnโ€™t ๐Ÿ‘น๐Ÿคทโ€โ™€๏ธ have ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ been ๐Ÿ”Ž๐Ÿ‘ more ๐Ÿ‘†๐Ÿค” wrong. Looking ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ’ฐ back, I ๐Ÿป think that the women ๐Ÿ™† saying ๐Ÿคข those ๐Ÿ’ฐ things felt ๐Ÿ˜ฉ๐Ÿ’ฆ like the floozies they ultimately were, and the men, with their fickle manhood tied to their ๐Ÿ† pathetic sexual conquests, felt ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜ฐ๐Ÿ˜Ž threatened. I think ๐Ÿค” itโ€™s important to write ๐Ÿ“ this column ๐Ÿ† not to gloat (though โ€ผ๏ธ๐Ÿคจ Iโ€™ll ๐Ÿ˜ก be ๐Ÿ glad to), but to speak ๐Ÿ™Š up ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ๐Ÿšซ for all ๐Ÿ’ฏ of the young ๐Ÿ‘ผ couples that have also done โœ… things the right ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰ way. ๐Ÿ˜คโœ‹ When ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ˜‚ people ๐Ÿ‘จ do marriage right, they donโ€™t complain so much, and so their ๐Ÿ‘ฅ voices are silenced by the rabble of promiscuous charlatans, ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜’ peddling their ๐Ÿฎ pathetic ๐Ÿ˜จ๐Ÿ˜จ world ๐ŸŒŽ view ๐Ÿคค as โ€œprogressive.โ€