My friend, young girls are responsive to dominating men. You can be either physically dominating (which is bad), manipulative (which is even worse) or you can be intellectually dominating. The first two are the most powerful, but the last one is very relationship-friendly.

I suggest to make fun of her and yourself all the time. Just make sure you say it with smile and she knows it’s not serious. Call yourself the most handsome ever (and jokingly tell her that she’s a beast and you are beauty). Tell her that your career is to be a part time austronaut and part-time prime minister (because you cannot dismiss all your followers, etc.).

Keep this banter going and at the same time sexualise (it’s powerful when timed right). Young girls are sometimes very unsure about their body, so you need to praise her (jokingly!), e.g. give her breasts names (separare for left and right), when she keeps talking just stare at ther boobs (make it comically obvious), after she disturbs, flinch and say something like ‘those big mama monste… oh, so you were talking?’, say her ‘how’s your day? (she responds), oh, sorry, I wasn’t talking to you boobs-carrier. Take care of my girls (boobs)’.

Demonstrate you are into her and love her body. At the same time, if she asks ‘Am I pretty?’, make a big smile, hold her close and answer ‘no, you as ugly as they come’. Just make sure she knows it’s a joke! Another good ones: ‘hun, all those people… they must think how the girl like you got the guy like me?’, touch your bum and say: ‘dang! this is THE BUM. Do you want to fell it?’ (grab her hand as if you were making her touch your bum, when she pulls back her hand, ask ‘but… but I took shower?’). Praise yourself in the most comedic way you can, e.g. get her phone and rename your contact to ‘The Handsomess’. If it’s funny = it’s attractive. Keep it positive and never neg her.

You need to sexualy escalate or she will keep putting you in ‘friend’ box. You don’t want that. This way of funny banter + sexualisation takes a bit of practice, but if done right, it’s never boring. Make sure you always smile and keep it funny. Calibration is the thing – you can train in stanup comedy for it. If she’s smart, she will start responding in the same way and then you both have this ‘secret’ thing between you. It will be difficult for any Chad to replicate that.

It’s a light positive game and I know I will be downvoted. But it got me cool super-sexy wife and keeps us going 😛

Btw, if she offers you sex – don’t think and just have it. If she starts hooking up or meeting other guys, then you withdrawn all attention and offer her FWB maximum. Be the best guy you can, but if she’s not appreicating this, then you move to the next.

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