Whenever any two people get in an argument or fight in my presence, I feel this deep-seated urge to stop it, but not only for the conflict to be settled, but specifically to be the one who stops it. Like, it’s probably an evolutionary thing. But I feel like I need to be louder, more dominant, and the aggressor. It’s like any aggression, even displayed towards someone I don’t know, in my presence, is perceived by my lizard brain to be a threat and it triggers my fight response.