I (21F) am in a small polytheist sect, and I met my boyfriend (24M) there. Needless to say, as the title suggests, I think one of the gods is attractive. Needful to say, but for privacy reasons, I will substitute the pantheon. So, I have a crush on the demigod Olympian Dionysus (6669 M), and while I did think the character of Mr. D was cool when I read Percy Jackson, I heard it wasn’t too accurate. More context, but when I joined this faith, I expected to honor Demeter (13337 F), but instead ended up honoring Dionysus and Athena (12345 F) as well. I don’t mind, but I was a bit wary of honoring Dionysus because of my crush on him. If I told my boyfriend about my crush, reddit, would I be the asshole?