**If you deeply care about other people in your life that makes you selfish**

Let’s say your teacher, coworker etc dies or has something horrible happen to them and that makes you sad, your sadness is selfish.

You don’t care that someone died, you care that someone that you know died. If you didn’t know them, you wouldn’t care.

Someone dies from cancer in the USA nearly every minute, and you already knew that. Yet, you are not genuinely sad every minute of every day.

The only way you would genially care about someone dying of cancer is if there was some connection to you.

Even if that connection is just that you heard about their story in detail. You now know their story, you now know they died, so you now care. It’s all about you.

Caring about other people is selfish.