I am a nice guy. It leads to girls asking me to do things like fix their cars or fix something in their house, which I do. Then they start asking me to take them shopping, out to lunch, or lend them money. This kind of shit, I lay down the law. I do what I do for them not because I want anything from them, view them as special or desire them in any way. I do it because I enjoy it and do it for anyone I like that asks. I tell them that if they think I am trying to impress them or win their affections, they are self absorbed idiots and they better find a handyman or some pathetic excuse of a man who is willing to drop what they are doing to cater to your every whimper. I end it there and thats that. They usually start sending apologies and start kissing my ass, which almost always leads to them trying to flirt or asking me to talk. I reiterate how I never desired them, I was just helping a friend out. This is where they crumple and become my bitch, or they get pissed and act like trash. If they are hot and I dont particualry care for them, I fuck em always ensuring they know it will never become anything more than just sex. When they develope feelings or for a second time make requests like they did previously, i drop them immediately and never answer they texts or calls again. On a few occassions I had girls act, respect my response, and us continue to be friends with no stupid bitch requests in the futre. That has been rare though. Ive also had girls who were use to playing those games and getting what they want from guys that just stopped talking to me after I shut them down. They are pretty uncommon though.

So yeah, I am a nice guy, just one who is genuniely nice and has self reapect.