A-After a bit of experimenting, I place two drops on my wife’s labia and one drop in her vaginal opening. Sometimes one drop on labia and one in opening. Sometimes two drops on labia and none in opening. In general, use more drops for more longevity and fewer drops for more friction. In our experience it’s just as important to apply it early enough so that the building passion does not get interrupted. I suggest applying it 20 minutes before you start to make out but 10 minutes if you proceed to intercourse fairly quickly. Obviously, everyone’s mileage will vary