So recently my girlfriend has decided to stop shaving her body and just go all natural from here on out. We are both very much hippy types and normally I would never have an issue with this, BUT, I did not realize the extent she was going to take this. She has let her arm pit hair grow to lengths longer than mine, she has let her legs get hairy, stopped keeping her uni brow and peach fuzz mustache trimmed up, and this is by far the worst, she has even stopped shaving her pubic hair. I had never realized how hairy this woman was until she decided to do this. Best part is she still wants to wear revealing clothing and tbh this bothers the fuck out me.


I understand that a woman’s body is hers and hers alone and she has every right to do as she pleases and I will always support her, but this is taking it to a bit of an extreme. I’m becoming very unattracted to her and to make matters worse she flaunts her hairy ass body like she’s a runway model. I’m really happy she has this new found confidence but it makes it very difficult for me to become sexually involved with her, especially because she’s stopped keeping her pubes trimmed. She wants to cuddle me and when we both sleep nude its like I’m spooning a grown ass man and honestly I’m trying to be understanding of this but its very difficult for me.


Especially since she admitted to me that she doesn’t like it when I let my pubes grow out, she doesn’t want me to shave my face or cut my hair or any of those things because this is fine. I understand. How can I expect my girl to enjoy going down on me when she’s greeted by bush and hair in her mouth. Plus when two people rub their genitals together and they are both in anyway hairy it can be uncomfortable and sometimes painful, so I don’t get why she thinks I would be ok with “exploring the jungles” of her vagina when I can’t even see the gates to glory? Yeah I totally want to have sex with you in doggy and look at your ass hair thats longer than mine.


Maybe I’m reacting to harshly but its getting kind of out of hand, and tbh I find it really gross. I just don’t know how to tell her. I’ve tried to be polite and ask gently but she sees it as a way of me trying to control her body. I almost feel like I’m dating a Feminazi.


I have no idea how approach this, anything helps