First off, I want to say i know about consent and me(m27) and my girlfriend(f24) communicate well. We’ve been together for over 3 years and pretty much have did everything under the sun. We dipped are toes in BDSM, kamasutra, and other things, but the thing she consistently wants is a rape role play scenario. She likes it rough too so things can get a little wild. Couples hours ago the “**raper man**,” paid a visit. We have safe words and I can read her well, but to make the fantasy come alive she likes to yell out things like “NOÒO…” “STOPPP…” “DÖN’T TAKE IT FROM ME!!” Out of contest I’m pretty sure it sounds wild, but trust me, it’s 100% consensual. So we were probably a little louder than normal tonight because the music stopped about half way through. But long story short the neighbors just approached my girlfriend asking if everything is okay. This is kinda missing with my head right now because my neighbors are nosy. I think this is actually kinda going too far but don’t wanna tell my girl how I really feel because she’s done everything I ever wanted sexually without batting an eye. Wondering how I should approach this, she laughed it off tonight, but I wanna have a serious talk with her in the morning.