That’s funny You see the obvious difference is that I don’t lead my friends on with something retarded like “iLl mAyBe jOiN” or “I cAn pRoBabLy jOin lAtEr” I instead say the truth as any decent person should: I can or cannot/don’t want to play I honestly don’t see why you have to sugarcoat things, if anything it pisses people off more when you don’t say the truth and don’t end up playing You almost always “probably”, but every single time so far has been no. At this point just say you don’t want to play when we ask and that will save us plenty of headache and time roasting you, there’s no point in hoping you’ll join if we’re just going to come to the usual result