Look out at the freeway during rush hour. What do you see? Drive by a dozen schoolyards at lunchtime, walk past a subway. What do they have in common? Sex. They are filled with people because of the biological impatience. Remember a hormone is a drug, testosterone and estrogen are drugs, therefore sex is a drug.

That doesn’t excuse assult, rape or dehumanizing anyone but understand the urge and persuit of sex is extremely powerful. You know when women get baby fever and the tunnel vision that comes with it? For many men visual sexual cues give them that tunnel vision 24/7. It’s biology that’s held over from an era where sex and reproduction were everything because you could easily die before reaching 35.