I have been in a relationship with my bf for a little over 2 years. We have a sexless relationship. I am lucky if we have sex once a month. I just want sex so badly. I want to be railed until I can’t think anymore. I want to be soaking wet because someone has turned me on. I want my fantasies to finally be awakened and made into reality. I want it desperately.

I can’t leave him, he does so much for me and cares for all my other needs. Except sex. I (21F) have a high sex drive and he (21M) has nothing at all compared to me. I don’t think he even masturbates anymore.

I’m just so sexually starved. I was reading “The Four Leaf” (great book, check it out if you’re into BDSM or primal play), and I cannot stop thinking about how good it would be to be able to live the life of the character. I’m so frustrated. I don’t know who to turn to to talk about it or how to fix it. I’ve tried everything. I’m just at my wits end.