I don’t know why more people don’t save themselves until marriage (this complaint can’t be good for their relationship). My girl (she mods at /r/makeupaddiction) and I are saving ourselves until marriage (yes, that includes no oral) as we prefer to work on our intellectual zen rather than lust after each other’s bodies. We are planing on getting married next fall in Dubai as we respect their views on sex and relationships. If OP were more like me, she wouldn’t have that problem. Too many girls give it up too soon nowadays, no guy wants a girl that puts out (I know I don’t)

http://www.reddit.com/r/WTF/comments/1rnagx/were_damned_if_were_too_quick_in_bed_now_were/cdp1kqk