I really hate the 18-22 group of self proclaimed kinksters that will call anyone who doesn’t like getting choke slammed by snot nosed dudes who use the word thot unironically “vanilla”.
If you think wearing harnesses and liking a bit of bdsm automatically means your sex life is great then good luck when you find yourself hanging upside down from some cheap shibari rope you bought from Spencer’s and the GameStop employee you called “daddy” finishes in 2 pumps or less. Now you’re sitting there looking goofy and probably losing circulation because you just wanted to look kinky, all orgasmless and ashamed while he’s putting on Netflix and explaining to you why Bojack Horseman is “deep af”.