It sounds like you don’t have an iPhone, let me know if you need any advice or tips for how to get in a socio-economic position like mine (iPhone 13). I really think it comes down to planning goals with executable dates and putting an emphasis on education. It was a struggle waiting tables while being a full-time University student pursuing a STEM degree, but I am working a great paying job now where I can afford things like iPhones. Feel free to shoot me a private message, I believe in you!