# I found out my girlfriend shits in the shower what do i do?



Don’t really know to get into this but I’ll start by laying out a few details.

So I’ve been dating this girl for about 4 months now and she is amazing ( up until I found out about this) like seriously amazing, both fallen hard for each other, I’ve met her family and she’s met my limited family and it’s been going great. She stays over a couple of times a week and I love her company and I’m very much In love with her. So finding out about this hit me quite hard and I’ve felt really weird since.

I don’t want to get into to much detail because its overall a pretty bizzare situation but basically at the start of the week she was at my place and we were chilling and caught up with the latest episode of the mandalorian (great TV show btw) and she goes off to take a shower which is normal after a day of work. So I’m chilling ln my room browsing Reddit and catching up with shit and I need to take a piss. I go to the bathroom and walk in to a room where I’m engulfed in the smell of shit and also it’s steamy as hell in there.

I’m taken a back clearly and trying to make sense of it because the toilet lid is down but the smell is so strong so I ask my girlfriend if she’s okay, she says she’s great and she’s nearly done she’s just trying to get rid of this. At this point I’m horrified and as I approach the shower curtain ( it’s a black curtain so I can’t see shit) I kinda realize what she’s done and I pull back the curtain and she faces me to smile at me and I look down and there’s about half a shit clogging up the drain and she’s clearly been trying to stomp it down.

I Had a lot of emotions running through my head all at once, horror, disgust and surprisement, mainly at her reaction of me walking in on her trying to waffle stomp a shit down the fucking drain, and I couldn’t get my head around how cool and collected she was. I basically just said wtf are you doing and tbh her reply was more of surprise at my reaction of seeing what she was doing as in she didn’t see the big deal about it and didn’t get why I was so horrified.

It was fucking weird.

I left the bathroom obviously and we had a talk about it and she thought it was a normal thing to do. She needed a shit and just went for it. Apparently she was raised in a household where that was a normal thing to do and I just couldn’t comprehend it. After a while talking she reassured me she didn’t do it all the time but just whenever she needed a shit while in the shower.

I tried explaining that this was definitely not normal or a cool thing to do whatsoever and she kinda flipped it back on me as if I was shaming her and got upset.

Like i said I love this girl but this has properly rocked me and I don’t know what to do.

Sorry for poor grammar and formatting and how long this post is but I had to get this off my chest as I don’t feel like telling anyone else and embarrassing her further.