I (M24) transitioned about a year ago, my entire family knows about it at this point, even my 3 month old little brother (0.25M). Everyone calls me by my preferred name and uses my referred pronouns (he/him), EXCEPT my grandmother (90F). She doesn’t know much about LGBTQIA+ (when I explained it to her she just said something she already mentioned like 3 times beforehand), but that doesn’t excuse her being this transphobic and gaslighting me into being cis. Anyways, a little less than 4 days ago I was taking care of my grandma and she suddenly says something along the lines of “[deadname], dear, can you please bring the remote here so I can watch TV?”. Tired of her FASCIST BULLSHIT, I THREW the remote in her face. She yelled “[mom’s name]! Your DAUGHTER threw a remote at me!”. I got incredibly pissed, my hands shaking at my nazi grandma. I dropkicked her to the ground and jumped out of the window. I got 58+ calls and a bunch of texts saying they called the police blah blah blah. I’m currently at my boyfriend’s (63M) apartment hiding from the cops. Kind people of Reddit, AITA?