One, I don’t care what your wife thinks you schmuck, I already have one who’s better than both of you at arguing. She’s a barred lawyer. Two, I stated neither of those things you black hole of nuance. Being married is a financial decision as much as a personal one. Only the painfully naive ignore that clear and obvious fact. Nobody said it’s the only consideration, but only the dumbest mofos have no discussion of it before being married. When you’ve spent your life working really hard and given the fruits of that work to someone you love, it means something. It’s only broke-ass morons who think you can eat love. Three, your wife can hand her genitals to every half-showered dipshit from Brighton to Glasgow, I still don’t care how much you trust her and that still doesn’t make you better than anyone.