seeing a lot of ‘what is gay’ on here.

To me, something is “gay” if you are gaining sexual pleasure by consenting to another male giving or receiving sexual intimacy from or with you.

There is no rule like “you watch gay porn, you’re gay” or “the balls touched, so you’re gay”.

I’ve watched a few football games in my life. Am I a football player?

I’ve found myself watching male on male videos, and I thought I may be gay or something due to what some people say. When this girl I had been hooking up with tried to do something with my asshole, I realized I could NOT be gay hahaha. It was just not comfortable, and I realized just because I like to watch something, doesn’t mean i’d like it to happen to me.