Me and my girlfriend have been dating about 1.5 months, both 20 yo. We have had sex, she seems to like it, and has said she loves me(I said it back). I slept over last night, and we went to breakfast this morning. On the way back, she mentions how her dad pees outside onto their garden. Haha, ok. Then she says the neighbors won’t look at him because when he does this, they see his massive dick. Wtf. I ask, why are you telling me this? She responds, “I don’t make the rules. When I was younger, I was afraid of all men because I thought all of them were as big as my dad.” Seriously wtf. I told her not to talk about that anymore because it’s super weird, and makes me uncomfortable. Now I have a pit in my stomach because all I can think about is her comparing me to her dad. I don’t want to be naked around her anymore. For reference, I’m above average, but clearly not near what her dad is. Makes me sick to think and talk about this. What do I do now?? I don’t know if I should address it again, or what.

UPDATE: talked to her. she apologized? but also didn’t seem to grasp the situation. i brought up that she seems to compliment her dad more than me when it comes to dick size, which she refuted, but that’s how it felt. it seems to be a mix of trauma dumping and a misunderstanding, i think we can work it out. only time can tell though