Chad alert here, you don’t even know shit about the hymen or how a girl loses her virginity. I lost/took the virginity of my first gf, she was 16. It wasn’t easy, it was painful for her (later I learned that’s because the vagina has to be lubrificated and since she was tense from losing her virginity that was hard), and we were definitely fucking virgins.

And no blood came out. No sign of a broken hymen. We were looking for it too. We heard you could have sex and the hymen not break, but we never saw anything.

Hymens can break from exercise or even from menstruation. Or they can break smoothly during sex. And they’re not easy to find before.

You aren’t going to find it, especially if you’re not fucking a 13 year old.