To ALL you younger men out there. I am a 73 year old (young) Red-Pilled-MGTOW. I wasn’t born this way, I was MADE this way, in the crucible, that we describe as “life”. I have a lot of time at my disposal (I enjoy my pension, and my hobbies, of which I have many), and if I can save one young man from the ordeals, that I have had to contend with, then it is worth my time and effort. This is a long and hard ride (like good sex), so “buckle up”. My advice to you is… If you want to be happy, in this life, at this time, then FORGET your dreams concerning a family. Statistically, you do not stand a chance. The power to have/keep/sustain a “family”, definitely does NOT rest in YOUR hands. You may find a partner, to build up something with, but even during/after the “build”, SHE decides if it continues, and in many cases, SHE has the possibility to destroy it, even when just on a “whim”. SHE is able to/capable of, take/taking your children, home, car, future finances, and most importantly your DREAMS/ASPIRATIONS, not to mention your FREEDOM. SHE gets the prize, YOU get the price. This is the voice of my experience speaking. I have tried 4 times in my life to create a successful/happy world for my partner, my children and myself. Most times I have failed. The only reason that I didn’t fail the last time, is because she committed suicide in 2000. Only because of this I had a chance to raise my children, and save my empire, that I had built, and that she tried to destroy. In ALL 4 cases, the destruction started with “I’m not happy”. The last one after 23 years of marriage and 4 children. Luckily, she took her life, before she could COMPLETELY destroy my business (which, ironically, was the source of her, and our, well-being), and that I could save the house that we had built, and that I had financed, with my work. Don’t try to discover any logic. There isn’t any. Logic is not the strong point in females. Just one example: Let us presume that the man loses his job, and therefore cannot pay child-support. SHE will arrange for him to go to prison, for not paying, without even considering the fact, that while he is in prison, he will not have the possibility, of paying child-support. She could have tried to find some kind of compromise, until he gets back on his feet. In that moment, his destruction is her primary concern. SHE doesn’t think, about the consequences for her, or her child. I am a resourceful guy, and after each catastrophe, I was able to re-build. Two of the other three, are still, until this day, trying to reignite a relationship (the first is now after 47 years), even if they are still “not happy”. They depended on me “making them happy”, and their partners, after me, also weren’t able to do so. They haven’t learned anything, and still believe, that happiness is something that is externally applied. The first ended in 1976 (after 7 years), and the second was an LTR (after 18 years). DON’T associate yourself, and anything meaningful, in your life, with a female, especially the brand of female that is being produced today. With that I mean, one that was brought up under the influence of “feminism”, single motherhood, a dysfunctional fatherless home, social-media. Sadly this constitutes most, if not ALL of them. I warned my boys very early, but only one of them has heeded my warnings. I have my resources, and am waiting, and am prepared to help when the time comes, and it will. I’m not wealthy, but am “comfortably off”. No wife, no young children, no problems. Just peace, happiness and hobbies (one of them being pump ‘n dump). My second youngest (he has a three year old boy), has now been convinced, by his wife, to move from a comfortable apartment (large enough), and purchase a new house, that is much too big for two people, and a child. I asked him (only once), if he realises how much work it will be, to handle the upkeep, of a large house with garden, and that she will probably, in the not too distant future, want, at least, a “cleaning-lady”, that he will have to pay for. This is what happened to me, and everyone around me in the past. I recognised, in the tone of his answer, that it would be unwise to press my point. He will be working his ass off for the next 35 years to pay for the house. I’ve made my plans, for when the “court-house-rap3” comes. I’m investing for him, and my grandson (as I have done for ALL of my male children). She doesn’t know, and will never know, until afterwards. I don’t need it… I’ll be gone soon). All the proceeds are in a “Trust”, so that she won’t be able to get her hands on it, even after my demise. It’s all I can do. I’m not saying, with certainty, that it WILL happen, but I am aware of the statistics. Build you own thing, for you. If you find someone to come along for a ride on your train, then let her, but ALWAYS keep YOUR hand on the throttle, and MORE IMPORTANT, on HER eject button. Remain captain of YOUR ship. Please excuse the many metaphors.