I’m so glad you reached out to me to share that because fuck I’m sure you’ll find yourself at some point giving the same advice to some young and eager person who is lost and frustrated in the confusing world of romance and relationships and you’ll find that not only does it suck to receive that as the piece of advice or the wisdom from those who’ve been there before, it sucks to have to give that advice or wisdom as well because you can see that it leaves the person you’re talking to in got negative State of Mind where they just feel frustrated and they will almost guaranteed feel as if that was the circumstance that applied to you but somehow they are different and inevitably it won’t apply to them and you’ll know that it’s not the case and you will say everything you can to try and game there face in your knowledge and two boat that you can Tia sense of hope and relief in them by the time you’re done talking but nothing you will be able to tell them will result in that outcome it aside from but I’m giving things time and allowing time to do it’s magic. Road signs people won’t come back to you and say hey by the way you’re right and thank goodness I’m glad that you did and maybe that’s something different that you can add to that piece of advice when you find yourself giving it tell someone in the future. I can almost guarantee now that they still won’t necessarily have faith that what you went through will be what they go through but you can at least walk away from that conversation knowing that a few years from now they’ll be in the position that you are and you’ll be where I am.