Last week I threw out my wifes boyfriend out because I felt that he didn’t respect me. He never cleans up after himself neither does my wife so all of the responsibilities lies on me despite it being my house. Whenever I’m in the mood for sex she’s never in the mood but when he’s in the mood they have sex (we all sleep in the same bed). They both have a kid after 2 years of meeting but whenever I suggest we have one she says that she isn’t ready despite us being together for 5 years. They usually leave me to babysit while they go to dinner or a party. Whenever I try to discipline the kid they both scream at me telling me it’s not my kid. She sometimes send me to sleep on the counch because she wants to spend alone time with him but she never does that to him. Every month the bills are sky high and I’m the only one paying them. Eventually I got sick of his shit and kicked him out but mostly because of jeously. My wife is calling me an ass and constantly starting fights until one day she went to live with him. She said that she will come back once I accept to take him in again. I don’t plan on leaving my wife so please just don’t suggest it. So now I’m wondering if I should take him back?